1 Timothy 3:15, James 5:9 Grumbling

but in case I am delayed,  I write  so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and support of the truth. (1 Timothy 3:15 NASB)

Do not complain, brethren, against one another, so that you yourselves may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing right at the door. (James 5:9 NASB)

Observation

The whole point of Paul's writing is for the edification of the church; that the church would know how to conduct itself as a household of God. One conduct not listed in 1 Timothy, but found in James 5:9, Jude 1:16–19, and 1 Peter 4:9, is that the church should not complain or grumble against one another. 

I know it seems odd that I would SOAP this Timothy scripture today and then pull my references from other books of the bible, but this is what God revealed, so I SOAP away. Grumbling and complaining against our brothers and sisters is easy, common, and one of the most destructive things we can do. Bitterness inevitably takes root and defiles many in the church. In fact, grumbling against your fellow Christian is a sin, and according to proverbs 6:16 God hates when dissension is stirred up among brothers.

Application

I'm guilty of grumbling and the conviction of today's word is a blessing. Towards the end of last year and the beginning of this one, I took my eyes off Christ and began to resent certain behaviors and even people in the church. Subconsciously I went looking for people who were unhappy and negative also, which only fed the junk growing inside of me. Although it certainly felt like sin, I never thought of grumbling as sin. Now that I know it is, I can and have asked for forgiveness and repent of it.

Grumbling can come from having more criticism then appreciation. At least for me that is where a lot of it can come from.  I'm also prone to be infected by those who are grumbling around me. Knowing these two insights, I can be mindful of the negative talk around me and also be taking my own frustrations to God.  He gives me my portion everyday.  If I need more appreciation all I have to do is ask, He has always shown Himself faithful to take care of my needs, including the needs of the heart.

Prayer

Father, please forgive me for grumbling against my brother and sisters. I choose to let no unwholesome word come from my mouth, but only what is good for the edification of others. When I get frustrated, I will take those frustrations to You, trusting You for my healing and portion. Thank You Father for being the perfect provider.